ThE TruTh of EmpaThy

Humans from various generations basically gained their knowledge of emotions from their ancestors…

The chronology started with the common behavior of the elders and of course the rituals or practices that strongly related with the way they handle their emotions. Most of us nowadays having a good kind of emotions evolving around us as our community begin to use the proper management of emotions and enhance their skills days by days.

But…..when we talk about empathy, no one can answer…..as this kind of emotion not really shown directly towards a person to another. We do convey empathy in many ways but we never realize it. That is why we can understand other people situation as we can feel the hardship they face and we try to help. We can be sympathy but in order to realize that we empathy….it is not easy….

LiVing ProCess..

it's been a while...
but still...we are trying to find more informations regarding emotions..
for us..to share...with you...

ask yourself...
How are your emotions today??
mind me to remind you...
we are humans..and humans think....
solve your weakness....
enhance your goodness....

with a great deal of emotions..
you may fly...
you may cry...
you may smile...
and yet...
you may deny...

but just try..as you may just shy...

eFFects Of EmpaThy on StudEntS

The evolution process have change many aspects of our life such as facilities, technology and also the way of thinking. If the students apply this type of emotion in their life, the new generations of high values and tolerations will be born.

1) the students will have a strong relations among them

2) empathy motivates the student to be a better person

3) the social problems are decreasing as the unity is greater

4) the students will know his or her own emotion and be able to understand others' feeling

It is clear now that empathy gives a huge impact to all people if it is use in a wise way.

hOw to SolVe EmpaThy

Common people generate empathy in their life based on a suitable situation because not all of the emotions apply to our mind is positive. Some can directly feel the reflected emotion of other people and they just can't control it which make the emotion conquer themselves.

First is to have a good organization of lifestyle because our emotion creates by our actions and if we don't have a well organized life, we will easily depressed and blaming others for our own fault. Thus, when we see a poor child works for his living, we feel sorry and we blaming ourselves for letting the bad state happen in our community. Actually, we can make a difference by taking an action to change the phenomenon.

Next, before we get the emotion of others, we should basicly know the reason of his or her condition. We can't directly jump into a conclusion without knowing the truth. A better understanding regarding the emotion of a person make the emotion is more easier to be apply in our mind.

Lastly, as a human, we must maintain a healthy mind because emotion can become a risks of our actions. For example, when a woman sees a girl in a bad condition, she may remember her own memories and she imagine as she is the girl also and without any warning, she may hurt herself because the emotion control her action.

Thus, to be as an empathetic person is not wrong just need a proper judgement and action so we don't make any mistakes in understanding others' feeling.

EmpaThy inFluEncEs in Life

Empathy is a controlled emotion because we only share the same emotion with the target but we not the person who face the situation. There are some positive effects to the people that apply empathy emotion in their life.

1) They learn their own emotion better
Every people that try to understand other person feeling need to discover his or her emotion first.
For example :
Sarah is a businesswoman and she has a great life. She sees an old woman by the street work hardly for a little money to survive. She feels sad and gives some money to the old woman.

This condition shows that Sarah is a empathetic person because when she saw the old woman she felt sorry for her because she is having a wonderful and happy life but on the other hand, the woman needs to struggle hard to earn money for her life. She decided to help her because she can feel the hardship the woman been through. So, she gave some money to make her day better.

2) Create a harmony community
If empathy is been apply in all people emotion the world will be such a nice place to live.
This is because we generate a caring community as we share our happiness and depression together. How does it happen?? To be empathy, we are taking care of the difficulties and the accomplishments so we are getting closer to each other.

3) Enhance the development of self alert of environment
People with empathy are more attentive with the surrounding because their emotion are developing greatly with times. They also describe the world as their responsibilities because they taking care every situation that occur in their community.

Some people can’t control their empathy limit until they over interpret the emotion and causing negative effect at themselves.

1) Depression
They keep blaming themselves for the hardship that other people face and sometimes they hurt themselves as a pay back sacrifice for letting the person suffer in the hardship. This is also an empathy emotion but they making it worse as they can’t manage the emotion and let the emotion dominate them.

MotiVatiOn of EmpaThy

We create a motion on direct or indirect force because our body get the instruction from our brain and interpret it to a motion. So do ‘empathy’. We can feel the emotion if we let our brain to think about it and apply it in our mind to get the real feel of the situation.


First, most of the person that can feel the emotion well are people who has been in that specific condition before because they already get through it and they know the hardship the person may face. Furthermore, the experienced people can also give advices to the individuals so they will not make mistakes in solving their hardship.


Second, because we feel guilty or somehow responsible for his or her condition. Empathy is so much different than sympathy because for sympathy we only feel sorry for his or her condition but we don’t try to be and feel as we are in his or her condition. So we only look at them and feel sorry without taking any action. On top of that, when we in an empathy situation, we imagine ourselves facing the hard situation thus create our motion to help them in various of ways.


Third, the sense of a close relation between people. All of us have senses but the way we handle our sense with the surrounding are different. Some of us never care the other people hardship and challenges because they live in a comfortable life. This cause an uncaring generations grow in our community. In the other hand, people that use their sense in maximize way always alert about the changes of the surrounding and care about it. They want to maintain the harmony life so they help other people in many ways because they let themselves understand other people’s hardship and want them to successfully solve it as they are a community.


Every people that apply empathy in their life has a life full of joy and satisfaction because they give their best in their life and also in other people life. So, to generate empathy in our life, we should try to be a responsible person for ourselves and our community.

cOnnOte of emPatHy

'EMPATHY'

as calm as the river, the 'empathy' term itself give an extraordinary sense because it is about feeling..about heart and about mind..about soul..

MK McGovern stated that 'empathy' is the ability to understand the internal experiences of another while Cultural Dictionary interpret 'empathy' as identifying oneself completely with an object or person, sometimes even to the point of responding physically, as when, watching a baseball player swing at a pitch, one feels one's own muscles flex.

thus, in general 'empathy' can be said as we try to be and feel like in other people shoes and concern the feeling briefly to get the real emotions. To feel like other people's emotions is not easy and need an in depth understanding of that situation or condition. 'Empathy' also give a huge impact to a person than sympathy because 'empathy' moves people to create a motion at least to feel the hardship or accomplishment that the person get through.

So to generate a world of toleration we should try to be an empathetic person as for that we wont hear any more war, depression and hardship in people.

ProloGue..

Life is a journey of evolving our true-self and characterization throughout times and places we have been. For every seconds we live the efforts may shown but in various kind of ways. Troubles, challenges and accomplishments creating a new agenda for every steps we make.

So as the earth still here for us, the sun still bright for creatures and the wind shall blow for souls..why we never let a little bit of our seconds to think of ourselves and to understand of being a another-self person.

Times changes as the attitudes and point of views are evolve without hesitation and we just can’t control it because we also change by our own development of self realization. Yet, people are motionless same as their emotions since we only analyze the external appearance of people but we never try to be in that position.

That is why ‘empathy’ is such a valuable emotion to be sense by all the human beings as it enhance the forces of other emotions and as well as the motions. Thus, ‘empathy’ is so significant to our life to get know us better and to know others much better.