Common people generate empathy in their life based on a suitable situation because not all of the emotions apply to our mind is positive. Some can directly feel the reflected emotion of other people and they just can't control it which make the emotion conquer themselves.
First is to have a good organization of lifestyle because our emotion creates by our actions and if we don't have a well organized life, we will easily depressed and blaming others for our own fault. Thus, when we see a poor child works for his living, we feel sorry and we blaming ourselves for letting the bad state happen in our community. Actually, we can make a difference by taking an action to change the phenomenon.
Next, before we get the emotion of others, we should basicly know the reason of his or her condition. We can't directly jump into a conclusion without knowing the truth. A better understanding regarding the emotion of a person make the emotion is more easier to be apply in our mind.
Lastly, as a human, we must maintain a healthy mind because emotion can become a risks of our actions. For example, when a woman sees a girl in a bad condition, she may remember her own memories and she imagine as she is the girl also and without any warning, she may hurt herself because the emotion control her action.
Thus, to be as an empathetic person is not wrong just need a proper judgement and action so we don't make any mistakes in understanding others' feeling.
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